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Communication between Husband and Wife
Lee Sang-won, ‘Raise your sons and daughters with unconditional, true love and character education like this’ ‘An article taken from Yang Seogak Publishing’
Communication means include language, actions (gestures/physical means, text means, and signs).
In other words, you can only communicate through words.
You can only communicate through action
Sometimes you can communicate through both words and actions.
Taking quiet time without saying anything is one of the means of communication.
Just listening intently during a conversation is also a type of conversation tool.
Cooking your wife or husband’s favorite food and sharing it with each other is also a means of communication.
A wife or husband buying food and eating it together is also a means of communication.
Sending a single rose or 12 roses, remembering a person’s birthday and sending a card or gift, or sending a card or gift on a wedding anniversary are also forms of communication.
When people meet each other, they smile, shake hands, and hug. This is also a kind of means of conversation.
Smiling loudly, loving each other through eye contact, and making appropriate physical contact by gently placing a hand on the shoulder are also behavioral communication tools.
A loving couple sitting close to each other, hugging, kissing, touching, and making love are also forms of gestural communication.
Some women squeeze the other person’s hand when shaking hands, while others do not even hold her hand and instead shake hands with a wide open palm.
Some men shake hands by holding them so tightly that they break. There are women and men who immediately jump in and hug each other as soon as the handshake is over.
These handshakes and hugs are also types of physical communication.
Once you receive a good look from a woman, you can never forget it for the rest of your life.
This kind of eye contact is also a means of communication.
All of these behavioral communication tools can have a much more powerful impact on marital relationships and our daily lives than a few thousand beautiful words.
When raising children, parents should not forget to often say the words I LOVE YOU.
You should also love them with appropriate physical contact, such as hugging them, gently placing a hand on their shoulder, and often with beautiful and loving eye contact.
After all, such love is often needed between married couples.
Some couples are able to naturally love their wives, husbands, and children like this.
Some couples do not know how to love their wives, husbands, children, and others with good eye contact or physical contact.
Such couples need to learn how to love each other more.
Husband and wife must learn how to love each other, parents must learn how to love their children, and how to love others.
We are all born with a nature capable of loving others.
You have to learn how to consciously make good eye contact with others.
You must learn to love your spouse, lover, child, or other person through appropriate physical contact.
Without learning how to love, you should not wait for a lot of love to come naturally and for your married life to be happy and smooth.
Athletes who receive gold medals at the Olympic Games have practiced and trained to the point of blood and tears.
Couples must learn to truly love each other unconditionally.
There is a love verse like this in The Song of Solomon in the Bible.
“You want to kiss me, for your love is better than wine.”
“My love, you are pretty and pretty. Your eyes are like doves.”
“I am the daffodil of Sharon and the lily of the valley.”
“My beloved belongs to me, and I belong to him…”
“My love, you are so pretty…”
“Drops of honey fall from your lips, and there is honey and milk under my tongue…”
“Love, how beautiful you are, how sunny you are, how delightful you are.”
“Your mouth will be like fine wine….”
This is part of the love dialogue passage in the exposition of the Song of Songs.
If couples often communicate in writing, verbally, and physically, phrases that convey this beautiful love to each other, their married life will become smoother.
There are also writings about love in the Book of Poetry, including unrequited love, mourning, separation, heartbreak, rebellion against forced marriage, praise of love, long separation after marriage, separation and abandonment of couples, and descriptions of weddings.
There are bound to be joys and sorrows between us human couples. These joys and sorrows must be resolved through loving dialogue.
Couples must live by understanding, forgiving, and accepting joys and sorrows, good things and bad things through conversation.
For this reason, it is said that “of all the important things to maintain a smooth married life, sex is not the most important, but conversation.”
There are 8,540 minutes in a week.
Of those, we can assume that a total of 210 minutes are spent having sex. However, there will be much more time for active conversation between couples.
In fact, it is said that marital sex is one of the most enjoyable means of conversation and action.
If a couple lives with the intention of breaking up, living separately, and getting divorced at any time, how will the marriage be successful?
Marriage promises and pledges are not promises made by young children playing house.
You should not think of it as a promise made by irresponsible people these days.
If a couple cannot solve problems that arise during marriage through conversation on their own, they should seek professional counseling.
Among the means of communication, there is a means of action.
It has already been explained that lovemaking between couples is also a type of behavioral communication tool.
There is also a saying that a husband tells his wife, instead of saying, “Let’s go into the bedroom and make love,” the wife says, “Let’s go into the bedroom and talk.”
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‘Raise your sons and daughters with unconditional, true love and this is how character education’ is published by Yang Seogak.
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Korean parents all over the world!!!!!!!!!!!!
We hope you will join the movement to read the true parenting bible, a must-read for 80 million Koreans around the world.
Dr. Lee Sang-won, an American pediatrician and Korean pediatrician. John Sangwon
Lee, MD, FAAP provides child care, health promotion, and education to 80 million Koreans in his home country and around the world.
I would like to give the following information as a gift to the 80 million Koreans around the world, a must-read child raising bible on disease diagnosis, treatment, prevention, how to truly love your children, sleep, sex education for children and adolescents, character education, etc.
1. http://www.koreapediatrics.com/Parents should also become anti-doctors – Approximately 20,000 pages. 13412 Title, launched in 2013 Pediatric website operated by Sangwon Lee
2. Encyclopedia of Pediatric and Family Medicine – page 618, published in 1988
3. Pediatric and Family Nursing Encyclopedia – Parents must also become anti-doctors – page 1076, published by Cheongmungak in 1998
4. Newborns, infants, school-age children, adolescents, growth, development and childcare – 623 pages Published by Good Land in 2014
5. Diseases that promote good growth and development in newborns, 610 pages, published by Good Land in 2014
6. Reasons for breastfeeding, page 308, published by Good Land in 2014
7. Epilepsy (epilepsy) + epilepsy in children and adolescents: 100 questions and answers, 240 pages, published by Good Land in 2015
8. From pregnancy to newborn care, approximately 300 pages, published by Cheongmungak in 1998
9. Raise your sons and daughters with love like this, 210 pages, translated and written by Ross Campbell, MD, a world-class masterpiece, published by Seomundang in 1988
11. Drugs and Children, approximately 200 pages, published in 1988
12. Raise your sons and daughters with unconditional, true love and learn character education like this, published by Yang Seogyeok in 2016, page 647
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To improve health, which is one of the basic necessities of life for Koreans of all ages and genders in their home country and around the world, anyone, anywhere, at any time can easily access it.
There are times when you need a parenting information bible containing readable Korean language health promotion information.
I think more than a century has passed.
If I have time, I would like to give away all of the parenting bibles to Korean families around the world.
If you have time, read the entire parenting bible out loud to your beloved Korean parents.
I’d like to read it to you.
Of course, there may be some shortcomings. I am confident that if you raise your children by referring to other parenting bibles, they will grow up happily.
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Most of the content in the above posting is from www.koreapediatrics.com. Although it has a professional aspect, I believe it will be of great help in raising children and adolescents. However, the information here is not a substitute for information, diagnosis and treatment from your doctor. www.koreapediatrics.com Parents should also become anti-doctors
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