▣ 동방 예의지국 東方 禮儀 之國에서
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도道도 찾아보기가 어렵고 리理도 찾아보기가 어렵고,
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예禮도 찾아보기가 어렵고 절節도 찾아보기가 어렵고,
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애 愛도 찾아보기가 어렵고 정 精도 찾아보기가 어렵더라.
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친親도 찾아보기가 어렵고 척戚도 찾아보기가 어렵고,
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신信도 찾아보기 어렵고 의 義도 찾아보기 어렵더라.
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효孝도 찾아보기가 어렵고 도道도 찾아보기가 어렵고,
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우정도 신의도 찾아보기 어렵더라.
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모두가 가르 치려는 선생先生들이고 배울랴고 하는 학생學生들은 찾아보기 어렵고,
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모두가 인디안 취프들인 것 같고 인디안들을 찾아보기 힘들고
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배에 사공 있고 화부는 없더라,
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합리적도 논리적도 순리적도 아닌 말만 많이 하고.
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공손, 겸손, 검소, 진실을 찾아보기 힘들다.
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장유유서(長幼有序)도 찾아보기 어렵고.
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겸양 謙讓도 겸손 謙遜도 정도 定道도 사랑도 찾아보기 힘들고,
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범사 凡事에 감사感謝하는 사람을 찾아보기 어렵고 특별한 선물을 주어도 “감사하다.”고 말하는 사람 한 분도 없더라.
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잘 했다고 칭찬 稱讚하는 사람도 찾아보기가 어렵고,
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살아생전 기거하던 고향 내 스위트홈이 아닌 낯선 타관 요양원으로 노부모들을 모실 준비를 한다고 큰 소리로 떠들고.
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천리만리千里萬里에서 찾아온 형제 3촌 손님을 반가이 대해주는 친척도 찾아보기 어렵더라.
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어디를 가도 책을 읽는 사람을 찾아볼 수가 없더라.
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의사한테 가면 다 해 주는데 왜 의료 육아 참고서를 보느냐고 시장님이 말하더라.
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미국에서 소아청소년이 소아청소년 진료실에서 1회 건강 검진을 받는데 15~30분 정도 걸린다고 해도 그것이 사실이라고 수긍하는 사람이 하나도 없더라.
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한두 살 먹은 유아들이 젖병을 입에 물고 혼자 다니면서 먹더라.
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아동학대 한 해 접수 건수는 1만 7000여 건이라고.
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한국 국민 10명 중 7이 정부를 불신한다고,
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더구나 진정 眞正한 사랑과 축복祝福을 받으면서 산다고 감사 感謝하는 사람을 단 한 명도 맞나 보지 못하고.
2015년 7월
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Why do we need humanity education?
Why do we need humanity education?
“Raise your sons and daughters with unconditional, true love, and this is how to educate them.”
Reprinted from the 2016 Yangseogak publication
Chapter 1: What is humanity education, and when and who should provide it?
I’ve come to believe that humanity education is about educating others to love themselves, to love their parents and siblings, to love their neighbors, to respect their parents, to have no shame when looking at heaven and earth, to be able to help others, to cultivate good intellect, virtue, and physical strength, and to have healthy self-esteem and become productive members of society.
There is no perfect person in this world, and no perfect parent.
Who lives without sinning?
However, I define humanity education as the process of living safely, without sinning. This means being educated to live close to that goal, and studying and researching so that one can live close to that goal. In this sense, the home is the first school for character education for children, and mothers and fathers are the primary teachers of character education for their children.
After parents, school teachers and leaders of society and the nation become the secondary teachers of character education for the people.
Character education for the fetus should begin with ensuring that the pregnant woman grows mentally and physically healthy until birth, conceived through planned marriage and pregnancy. In other words, prenatal education is also a form of character education.
The mother and father of the fetus, as a couple and future mother and father, should love each other unconditionally and become teachers of their child’s character education.
Enjoy appropriate physical and mental exercise, rest, and sufficient rest to avoid fatigue.
Eat foods that are free from chemical exposure, eat a nutritious and balanced diet, take vitamins, avoid seeing disgusting things, hearing unpleasant or harmful sounds, consuming even a drop of alcohol, smoking cigarettes, or being exposed to secondary smoke. This also applies to taking any medications without a doctor’s prescription. Preventing all infectious diseases and delivering a healthy baby through proper prenatal care according to the doctor’s instructions is the very beginning of prenatal character education.
On the day of birth, mom and dad hold the newborn baby and anesthetize their eyes, saying, “I love you,” and holding the newborn baby in their arms and loving them with their eyes. This is character education, where parents offer their sons and daughters unconditional, true love for the first time right after birth. It’s a way to raise them with unconditional love.
Chapter 2: Why We Provide Character Education
▣ Current Status of Korean Children and Adolescents (ages 0-18) Gathered from Various Media
“More than 100,000 youth run away from home every year.
This is a serious problem. 370,000 youth are out of school. Half of them are unknown. 8/31/2015
“More than 10,000 youth commit suicide every year.
“Annually, 5,000 to 6,000 teenage girls become unwed mothers.” “Children raised by single mothers due to divorce, bereavement, or social separation for convenience live across the street from each other.
“Over 19,000 orphans are growing up in orphanages.”
“Schools are collapsing, classrooms are crumbling.”
“Lovely, innocent, and precious children are sometimes called ‘gross kids,’ ‘alien kids,’ or ‘fearless kids.'”
“Students even hit teachers or parents.”
“In particular, bullying and school violence have become so commonplace that group ostracism, persistent harassment, and physical violence are treated with indifference, leading to widespread insensitivity to violence.”
Even some parents, who receive over 60 child-rearing reference books from faraway countries, fail to write a single thank-you note.
“Korean children and adolescents report the lowest level of life satisfaction among the 26 OECD countries.” Korean students also had the lowest subjective happiness index.
Young people leaving the country because they “hate Korea”
“Families falling apart due to economic recession. Crimes against families on the rise.”
Unfortunately, the same trend is happening to children and adolescents around the world, including in the United States.
▣ These things happen to teenagers in Iowa every day.
2,753 get pregnant,
7,742 have sex,
1,287 give birth,
53 of their newborns die,
5 teenagers commit suicide,
21 die from alcohol-related causes,
78 children are abused in Iowa,
1 baby is born to a 12-year-old girl,
8 babies are born to teenage girls,
1 person attempts suicide every eight minutes,
20 students drop out of school.
About half of American adolescents aged 12 to 14 have a bomb party, and 18 or 20-year-olds die every eight minutes. 72% say they have a bomb party. Source: American Academy of Pediatrics News, AAP News, September 2015
▣ In the land of courtesy in the East,
the Way is hard to find, and principles are hard to find,
etiquette is hard to find, and discipline is hard to find,
love is hard to find, and passion is hard to find.
Friendship is hard to find, and relatives are hard to find,
trust is hard to find, and righteousness is hard to find.
Filial piety is hard to find, and the Way is hard to find,
friendship and loyalty are hard to find.
All the teachers are eager to teach, and few students are eager to learn.
Everyone seems to be an Indian chef, and it’s hard to find an Indian.
There’s a boatman on the boat, but no stoker.
There’s just a lot of talk that’s not rational, logical, or logical. And.
Politeness, humility, frugality, and truth were hard to find.
Even the rules of the elderly were hard to find.
Humility, modesty, righteousness, and love were hard to find.
It was hard to find anyone who was grateful for ordinary things, and not a single person said “thank you” even when given a special gift.
It was hard to find anyone who praised them for a job well done.
They loudly talked about preparing to move their elderly parents to a nursing home in a foreign land, not the sweet home they had lived in while alive.
It was hard to find relatives who welcomed their siblings and third cousins who had come from thousands of miles away.
No matter where I went, I couldn’t find anyone reading books.
The mayor asked, “Why are you looking at medical and parenting reference books when the doctor will do everything for you?”
In the United States, a child or adolescent was being treated in a pediatric clinic. Even though they say a single health checkup takes 15-30 minutes, no one accepts that.
One- or two-year-olds walk around with bottles in their mouths, drinking on their own.
About 17,000 cases of child abuse are reported each year.
Seven out of ten Koreans distrust the government.
Furthermore, I haven’t met a single person who feels grateful for the true love and blessings they receive.
July 2015
Is this okay?
Raise your sons and daughters with unconditional, genuine love. And this is how you teach character education.
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