Children need to be trained with love in order for them to grow up properly, have healthy pride, and become productive adults in the society .
When many parents say that children should be trained and they must first train their children strictly and coldly, like Hahn Seokbong’s mother, and train them in a Spartan manner according to certain strict rules as in the military.
I think it can, but it’s a wrong idea.
When training your children, you need to train them with tender Love, which should be Reasonable, Consecutive, Logical, and with Common Sense.
Parents need to train their children with love, setting an example for their children based on the right actions or words, parenting guidelines, or model text.
In particular, parents should train their children with exemplary words and actions (words and actions).
School teachers, leaders of society and the state, or adults from all walks of life must train them with love, setting healthy, right, and good examples to children.
Still, it is difficult to find honesty and truth in the world we live in.
You shouldn’t train your children in “Do as I say, don’t do as I do”.
In many families, almost all of them are many chiefs and there are no crew or workers. All around them are Chief and CEO, there are no Indians and no employees. Everyone shouts loudly. There are many parents who speak without a subject or a verb.
You have freedom, but you don’t know what is freedom. You have rights but no obligations.
I don’t know what I mean by “Freedom is not free” and I know everything is free.
Mengjamo’s Samrakjigyo (三樂之敎) is a good example for parents who train their children.
You have to train your children with love.
Yes, but they purely follow their parents’ training.
Sometimes they don’t need training.
Do all the right things voluntarily.
This is what parents want. Children must be trained and raised with true unconditional love.
Picture 32. Children with good eyes contacts are popular and like others. They have more of healthy self-esteem.
It also teaches us that the habit of dealing with people with good eye contact and smiling faces can determine success.
When trained with love, they grow into happy children.
If you train hard, your children feel uncomfortable and hate to talk and become depressed.
They don’t talk to their parents about the complaints and worries that they have deep in their hearts.
When parents laugh, children laugh and respond. Children are afraid when their parents are angry.
The training is conducted by first to make “a Please or Requesting”.
If they do not respond to requests, they are trained next by commanding. Or Rewarding
If they do not respond to parental training even if they are given orders or awards, they are trained in the order of Loving Punishment or expert counseling.
1. You must first train with a petition or request.
When training children, parents must first, quietly, lovingly and lovingly and first ask, “Please do this to your children.”
Parents must remember to say “Thank you” if your child complies and follows your petition.
It is to train with love like this.
When a 2-year-old child does something for him, he says “Thank you,”
I don’t know how wonderful it is to see them say “No, thank you” if they don’t like to do it. This is one aspect of American-style child training.
If he or she does not comply with your parent’s request, you should immediately check the following:
Find out if the parent’s petition was appropriate for the child’s age, level of development, and ability.
Find out if the child has any mental or physical abnormalities,
Find out if he child is hungry,
Find out if the child is growing up with enough true unconditional love from their parents,
You need to find out if your child’s love tank is full of parental eye contact love, physical contact love, and focused attention love and care.
If everything described above is fully stocked and you do not comply with your parents’ petition,
If you do the petition one or two more times and comply with the petition, you will be trained.
If he or she does not comply with the petition once or twice again, you will go on to the next level of training.
2. If he or she does not obey or rebel with your parents’ petitions, you may be ordered to do so, trained to do so, trained in behavior modification, or trained in punishment.
If he or she does not listen to or rebel with a second or third petition, whether he or she ordered to do so and trained
Whether to modify the behavior,
Whether you get expert counseling,
It is also trained as a punishment.
At this time, parents should learn and study through their reference books on normal growth and development in order to know how to plead for what is appropriate training for their age.
Otherwise, you should consult with a pediatrician, child care specialist, or appropriate specialist.
Parents should also read “ Parent should become at least doctors-부모도 반의사가 되어야 한다” or other child care books
Here too, parents should at least study their child’s training and Parent should become at least a half a doctor.
Parents’ needs or orders must be appropriate.
Sometimes everything is normal for the child in training in emotionally, Mentally, Spiritually, but There may be financial problems, and parents’ demands or orders may not be appropriate.
When parents raise and train their children, anger (anger) must be well controlled.
Parents can be very angry with their children when raising and training their children.
If parents are unstable economically, spiritually, physically, mentally, emotionally, and professionally, they can be angrier with their children.
When training your children, you must be extremely careful not to be angry with them.
If possible, you should not train your child for corporal punishment.
All studies show that corporal punishment has negative consequences for raising children.
It is not recommended to train your child with corporal punishment.
If parents need to punish their children at least once or often if they have to be punished at least once or often, whether the parent’s training method is wrong or they have not given their children unconditional true love. It is important to first find out if there is anything wrong.
If your parents make a mistake, you should apologize.
If the reckless make a mistake, you must cancel the request and apologize.
Parents should apologize to their children if they have been punished for wrongdoing or not punishing their parents.
Normally, if necessary, parents should apologize for wrongdoing to their children.
If your child is well trained by parents, you should not spare praise.
We should be relentlessly complimenting our well-trained children.
For what he has done wrong, you must take the right opportunity to correct each and every wrong thing and train it with love.
When making love with eye contact, physical contact, and focused attention love, and care, “I love you.” Whenever possible, instead of saying “you”, you should use his name and also say “I love you,” appropriately at the moment, so that you can confirm that your child is truly loved by their parents.