Raise your children with good eye contact love, appropriate physical contact love, focused attention love, and care (4). 좋은 눈맞춤 사랑, 적절한 신체 접촉 사랑, 집중된 관심 사랑, 돌봄으로 자녀를 키우십시오 (4)

Raise your children with good eye contact love, appropriate physical contact love, focused attention love, and care (4). 좋은 눈맞춤 사랑, 적절한 신체 접촉 사랑, 집중된 관심 사랑, 돌봄으로 자녀를 키우십시오 (4)

Parents should love their children with warm loving eye contact. And also parents must love them with appropriate physical contact love, such as hugs, touches, strokes, baths, and hands-on shoulders according to their ages.

If possible, the only one parent takes only one of his or her several children, and a parent-a child makes a special time to spend an hour, several hours, some times one or two days, or a week together, making him or her to be the most important person in the world. And also his or her parent gives to his child  focused attentional love and care intensively so that the child feels like he or she is the parents’ most precious child. This method of love is called focused attention love and care. Without further more explanation, please try it.

I found that parents who have never given such focused attention love and care to their children thought that they did to love their children properly.

Children who are raised without such true love can not feel that they are receiving true unconditional love from their parents, and their love is not well conveyed to them.

In particular, some children who grow up without receiving true unconditional love especially from their fathers, children do not care of whether their father is the prime minister of one of the country, or the CEO of the biggest company well recognized in the world, or a conglomerate with a thousand gold.

There are so many children and young adults around us nowadays who grew up lacking enough focused attention love and care from their parents.

 

Photo: The just-born newborn baby receiving loving eye contact love, physical contact love, focused attention love, and care from her mother.

The focused attention love received from parents, the warm eye contact love received from the parents, the appropriate physical contact love received from the parents, and the training received through loving become a source of essential energy for their lives and become the light and salt in their children’ lives.

Many parents do not know how important this way of loving their children is.

Since ‘a child  was  born, he or she was an extremely valuable person, and he or she was the top priority in his or her parents-life but some parents sent him or her to his or her grandparents or to other people to raise them rather than raising them by parents themselves.”

There are many children who grow up without truly receiving eye contact love, physical contact love, and focused attention love, and care from their natural mother and father who gave birth to them.

In order to provide a good education, many children were sent abroad to study at an early age, so many children grow up without receiving enough of their parents’ warm eye contact love, physical contact love and focused attention love, and care.

There are so many children in the world who grow up like orphans who grow up without parents every day.

For one reason or another, unfortunately, there are many children here and there who grow up without enough warm eye contact love, physical contact love, focused attention love and care from their own parents.

Material gratification for children, which is abundant in growing young children, cannot be ignored and is important, but material gratification is no substitute for true unconditional love from parents.

Children who don’t receive enough warm eye contact love and appropriate physical contact love from their parents every day, and sometimes focused attention love and care are not adequately received, it is difficult for children to feel that they grow up with true unconditional love from their parents.

The following is an introduction to “The love of the children of Senator Paul Tongas is an example”.