둘째 자부를 얻고 보니 안즘뱅이
After getting my second daughter-in-law, I realized she was cripple.
밥먹다가 소면보러 가고 국 끄릴때 간을 보지 않고
한 자리에 잠시동안도 가만이 앉아 있지 않고 서성그렸다.
그 당시 주의력 결핍 장애나 행동 과다 장애란 병명이 없었다.
아마도 그런 경에 걸려 있었던 같다.
물론 결혼을 하기전 데이트도 않고 결혼식날부터 동거 하는 식으로
부부로 사는 때였다.
이 양반 댁 어머니는 누구를 보면 맞 메느라에 대한 이야기를 했다.
한번은 동네 친한 아주마를 맞났다.
이번 둘 째 메느리를 구 할 때는 결혼 시키기 전 잘 보아 찬찬한
며느리를 얻겠다 다짐 했다.
하루는 그 아주마가 와서 산너머 너머 몇 10리 가면 큰골 동네에
갔더니 처녀가 참 얌전 하고 이쁘고 아주 찬찬 하고 적절이 행동
하더라고 전했다.
바느질을 할 떼 봤더니 실꾸리를 쓰면 무릅 밑이 놓고 가위를 쓰고 나면
다른 쪽 무릅 밑이 놓고 ….
정말로 찬찬 하다고 말 했다.
가서 보라고 해서 가봤더니 말 들은 대로 한자리에 앉아서 찬찬히
일을 했다.
집에와서 그 이야기를 아들한테 남편 한테 말하고 메느리로 얻기로 결정
했다.
시집 오는 날 가마에서 내린 둘째 메누리는 하체가 마비된 안즘 뱅이었다.
Copyright drleepediatrics.com 2/1/2026
After getting my second daughter-in-law, I realized she was ceipple.
She would leave the table while eating to go look at the noodles, and wouldn’t taste the soup while cooking it.
She couldn’t sit still in one place for even a short time, constantly pacing around.
At that time, there was no diagnosis for attention deficit disorder or hyperactivity disorder.
She probably had something like that.
Of course, this was a time when people didn’t date before marriage; they started living together as a couple from the wedding day.
This woman’s mother would talk about her first daughter-in-law to anyone she met.
One day, she met a close neighbor.
She vowed that when she found a second daughter-in-law, she would carefully observe her before the marriage to find a calm and composed one.
One day, that neighbor came and said that she had gone to a village several miles away, over the mountains, and found a young woman who was very gentle, pretty, and acted very calmly and appropriately.
She said that when she saw her sewing, she would place the spool of thread under one knee and the scissors under the other knee after using them… She said she was truly meticulous.
I went to see for myself, as she suggested, and just as she said, she was sitting in one place, working meticulously.
When I got home, I told my son and husband about it, and we decided to accept her as our daughter-in-law.
On the day of the wedding, the second daughter-in-law, who stepped out of the palanquin, was a cripple with paralyzed lower limbs.
Copyright drleepediatrics.com 2/1/2026