대인 관계에서 많이 쓰면 좋은 말들, The short course in human relationship

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대인 관계에서 많이 쓰면 좋은 말들, The short course in human relationship
제가 잘못했습니다. 잘못한 저를 용서해주세요 (I was wrong, please forgive me).
당신은 참 잘 하셨습니다. (You did a good job).
당신의 의견을 듣고 싶습니다. (What is your opinion).
제가 도와드릴까요. (Can I help you).
감사합니다. (Thank you).
“당신 또는 나” (You or I).
원 저자-모름
우리가 사는 동안 이런 말을 많이 할수록 보다 더 건강하고, 더 행복하게 살 수 있고, 대인 관계가 더 원활 하게 잘 될 수 있다.
잘못했으면 잘못했다고 용서를 구하고 용서를 받는 것이 얼마나 중요한가.
남이 잘한 것에 대해서 잘 했다고 격려와 칭찬을 해 주는 것은 또한 얼마나 좋은가.
나의 주장만 내세우고 내가 이 세상에서 가장 잘났다고 하는 것보다 남의 의견을 들어보고 배우고 더 잘하는 삶의 태도를 갖는 것이 또한 얼마나 좋은가.
나만 잘 살고 편안하고 행복하면 된다고 생각하는 사람들보다 남을 위해서 희생하는 사람이 된다면 얼마나 좋은가.
조그마한 일과 범사에 감사할 줄 아는 사람이 되는 것은 물론이고 남들이 나에게 해 준 아주 하찮고 작은 일에 대해서 항상 감사할 줄 아는 사람이 되는 것은 얼마나 좋은가.
부모형제의 은혜를 잊지말고 감사한 마음을 가지고 살면 얼마나 좋은가.
감사한 마음을 갖는 것도 좋지만 말로 글로 꼭 화답하도록 자녀를 키우면 얼마나 좋은가.
대인관계에서 “나”라는 말은 가능한 한 내세우지 않고 “당신”을 존중하는 대인관계를 갖고 살면 또한 얼마나 좋은가.
평상시 아이들이나 성인들이 이런 말을 더 많이 하고 그 말을 한대로 실행하면서 사는 것이 얼마나 좋은가.
독자 여러분!
자녀들도 이런 말들을 평상시 많이 하면서 살도록 가르쳐 주시면 어떨까요?
평소에도 인사하고 특별한 때도 인사를 잘 하면 성공 길이 훤해 집니다.
Good words to use a lot in interpersonal relationships,
The short course in human relationships
• I was wrong. Please forgive me (I was wrong, please forgive me).
• You did a great job. (You did a good job).
• I want to know your opinion. (What is your opinion).
• May I help you. (Can I help you).
• Thank you. (Thank you).
• “You or I” (You or I).
Original author – unknown
• The more we say these things throughout our lives, the healthier we are, the happier we will be, and the better our relationships will be.
• If you have done something wrong, how important it is to ask for forgiveness and be forgiven for doing something wrong.
• How good is it to encourage and praise others for doing well.
• How good it is to have an attitude of life that listens to, learns, and does better than I am the best in the world by stating my own opinion.
• How good it would be to become a person who sacrifices for others rather than those who think that only I can live well and be comfortable and happy.
• How wonderful it is not only to be grateful for the little things and everything, but to always be grateful for the little things that others have done for you.
• How wonderful it is to live with a grateful heart without forgetting the grace of parents and brothers.
• It’s nice to have a village to be grateful for, but how great it is to raise your children so that they must respond verbally and in writing.
• How nice it would be to live in interpersonal relationships that respect “you” without using the word “I” as much as possible in interpersonal relationships.
• How good it is for children and adults to say these things more often and live by doing what they say.
Readers!
How about teaching your children to live by saying these words a lot on a daily basis?
If you say hello on a regular basis and say hello on special occasions, the path to success will be clear.
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대인관계에서 자주 쓰면 좋은 말들 (Good Words for Human Relationship)
1. “제가 잘못했습니다. 용서해주세요.”
I was wrong. Please forgive me.
→ 실수를 인정하고 책임지는 자세는 신뢰를 쌓는 첫걸음입니다.
2. “당신은 정말 잘 하셨어요.”
You did a good job.
→ 진심 어린 칭찬은 사람을 성장시키고 관계를 따뜻하게 만듭니다.
3. “당신의 의견을 듣고 싶어요.”
What is your opinion?
→ 상대를 존중하고 배려하는 태도를 보여줍니다.
4. “제가 도와드릴까요?”
Can I help you?
→ 관심과 도움이 필요한 사람에게 다가갈 수 있는 마법 같은 말입니다.
5. “감사합니다.”
Thank you.
→ 아무리 많이 해도 지나치지 않은 말입니다. 고마움은 관계를 단단하게 묶어줍니다.
6. “당신”을 중심에 두세요.
Less “I”, more “You”.
→ “나”보다 “당신”을 중심에 두면, 관계가 더 부드럽고 건강해집니다.
삶에서 적용할 수 있는 교훈
용서를 구하고, 잘못을 인정하는 것이 겸손한 첫걸음입니다.
칭찬과 격려는 누구에게나 큰 힘이 됩니다.
타인의 의견을 경청하면 더 넓은 시야와 지혜를 얻을 수 있습니다.
자기만을 위하기보다는 다른 이들을 위한 마음이 진정한 행복을 가져다줍니다.
작은 것에도 감사하는 마음을 가지면 삶이 더 풍요로워집니다.
감사한 마음은 말과 글로 꼭 표현하도록 자녀를 키우세요.
평범한 인사도 꾸준히 하면 그 자체가 인생의 ‘복’이 됩니다.

Good phrases to use a lot in interpersonal relationships, The short course in human relationship
I was wrong. Please forgive me.
You did a good job.
What is your opinion.
Can I help you.
Thank you.
“You or I.”
Original author-Unknown
The more we say these words while we live, the healthier and happier we can live, and the smoother our interpersonal relationships can be.
How important is it to ask for forgiveness and receive forgiveness when we do something wrong?
How good is it to encourage and praise others for what they did well?
How good is it to have an attitude of listening to others’ opinions, learning, and doing better, rather than just asserting my own opinions and saying that I am the best in the world.
How good is it to be a person who sacrifices for others, rather than someone who thinks that they just need to live well, comfortably, and be happy? How good it would be to be a person who knows how to be thankful for small things and everything, and to always be thankful for the very trivial and small things that others have done for me.
How good it would be to live with a grateful heart without forgetting the grace of parents and siblings.
It is good to have a grateful heart, but how good it would be to raise children to always respond in words and writing.
How good it would be to live with interpersonal relationships where the word “I” is not emphasized as much as possible and where “you” is respected.
How good it would be if children and adults said these words more often and lived by practicing what they said.
Readers!
How about teaching your children to say these words often in their daily lives?
If you greet them well in everyday life and on special occasions, the path to success will be bright.
Good words to use a lot in interpersonal relationships,
The short course in human relationships
• I was wrong. Please forgive me (I was wrong, please forgive me).
• You did a great job. (You did a good job). • I want to know your opinion. (What is your opinion).
• May I help you. (Can I help you).
• Thank you. (Thank you).
• “You or I” (You or I).
Original author – unknown
• The more we say these things throughout our lives, the healthier we are, the happier we will be, and the better our relationships will be.
• If you have done something wrong, how important it is to ask for forgiveness and be forgiven for doing something wrong.
• How good is it to encourage and praise others for doing well.
• How good it is to have an attitude of life that listens to, learns, and does better than I am the best in the world by stating my own opinion.
• How good it would be to become a person who sacrifices for others rather than those who think that only I can live well and be comfortable and happy.
• How wonderful it is not only to be grateful for the little things and everything, but to always be grateful for the little things that others have done for you.
• How wonderful it is to live with a grateful heart without forgetting the grace of parents and brothers.
• It’s nice to have a village to be grateful for, but how great it is to raise your children so that they must respond verbally and in writing.
• How nice it would be to live in interpersonal relationships that respect “you” without using the word “I” as much as possible in interpersonal relationships.
• How good it is for children and adults to say these things more often and live by doing what they say.
Readers!
How about teaching your children to live by saying these words a lot on a daily basis?
If you say hello on a regular basis and say hello on special occasions, the path to success will be clear.
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Yonghyun Lee
koreapediatrics.com
Good Words for Human Relationship
1. “I was wrong. Please forgive me.”
I was wrong. Please forgive me.
→ Admitting mistakes and taking responsibility is the first step to building trust.
2. “You did a great job.”

You did a good job.
→ Sincere compliments help people grow and warm up relationships.
3. “I want to hear your opinion.”

What is your opinion?
→ Show respect and consideration for the other person.
4. “Can I help you?”

Can I help you?
→ Magical words that can help you reach out to someone who needs attention and help.
5. “Thank you.”

Thank you.
→ No matter how many times you say it, it’s never too much. Gratitude strengthens relationships.
6. Put “you” at the center.
Less “I”, more “You”.
→ When you put “you” at the center rather than “me,” relationships become smoother and healthier.

Lessons that can be applied to life
Ask for forgiveness and admit your mistakes are the first steps to humility.

Praise and encouragement are a great strength to anyone. Listening to others’ opinions can give you a broader perspective and wisdom.
A heart that cares for others rather than just for yourself brings true happiness.
If you have a heart that is grateful for even small things, your life will be richer.
Raise your children to express their gratitude through words and writing.
Even simple greetings, if you do them consistently, become a ‘blessing’ in life.