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▣ 동방 예의 지국 東方 禮儀 之國이나 세계 각처에서
道도 찾아보기가 어렵고 理도 찾아보기가 어렵고,
禮도 찾아보기가 어렵고 節도 찾아보기가 어렵고,
愛도 찾아보기가 어렵고 精도 찾아보기가 어렵더라.
親도 찾아보기가 어렵고 戚도 찾아보기가 어렵고,
信도 찾아보기 어렵고 義도 찾아보기 어렵고더라.
孝도 찾아보기가 어렵고 道도 찾아보기가 어렵고,
우정도 신의도 찾아보기 어렵더라.
모두가 가르 치려는 先生들이고 배울랴고 하는 學生들은 찾아보기 어렵고,
모두가 인디안 취프들인 것 같고 인디안들을 찾아보기 힘들고
배에 사공 있고 화부는 없더라,
합리적도 논리적도 순리적도 아닌 말만 많이 하고.
공손 겸손 검소 진실을 찾아보기 힘들다.
長幼有序도 찾아보기 어렵고.
謙讓도 謙遜도 定道도 사랑도 찾아보기 힘들고
凡事에 感謝하는 사람을 찾아보기 어렵고 특별한 선물을 주어도 “감사하다.”고 말하는 사람 한분도 없더라.
잘 했다고 稱讚하는 사람도 찾아보기가 어렵고,
살아생전 기거하던 고향 내 스위트홈이 아닌 낯선 타관 요양원으로 노부모들을 모실 준비를 한다고 큰 소리로 떠들고.
千里萬里에서 찾아온 형제 3촌 손님을 반가이 대해주는 친척도 찾아보기 어렵더라.
어디를 가도 책을 읽는 사람을 찾아볼 수가 없더라.
의사한테 가면 다 해주는데 왜 의료 육아 참고서를 보느냐 시장님이 말하더라.
미국에서 소아청소년이 소아청소년 진료실에서 1회 건강 검진을 받는데 적어도 15~30 분 정도 걸린다고 해도 그 것이 사실이라고 수긍하는 사람이 하나도 없더라.
한두 살 먹은 유아들이 젖병을 입에 물고 혼자 다니면서 먹더라.
아동학대 한 해 접수건수 1만 7000여건이라고.
한국 국민 10명 중 7 명 정부 불신한다고
더군다나 眞正한 사랑과 祝福을 받으면서 산다고 感謝하는 사람을 단 한 명도 맞나 보지 못하고.
2015년 7월이래도 되나요
아들 딸 조건 없는 진정한 사랑으로 키우세요
그리고 인성교육은 이렇게하세요.
Reasons and necessity for Humanity (character) education
Written by Lee Sang-won ‘Raise your sons and daughters with unconditional, true love and character education like this’ ‘Article taken from Yang Seogak Publishing’
▣ Circumstances of Korean children and adolescents (0-18 years old) collected from various media these days
“More than 100,000 teenagers run away from home every year.”
Something big happened. 370,000 out-of-school youth. Half of them don’t even know the material. 8/31/2015
“More than 10,000 teenagers commit suicide every year.”
“Every year, about 5,000 to 6,000 teenage girls become single mothers.”
“Children growing up under single parents due to divorce, bereavement, or living in social isolation for convenience live across from the same house.
“More than 19,000 orphans are growing up in orphanages.”
“Schools are falling apart, classrooms are falling apart.”
“Lovely, innocent, precious children are sometimes called “gross children,” “alien,” or “fearless children.”
“Sometimes students hit teachers or parents.”
“In particular, the problems of bullying and school violence have become routine, and insensitivity to violence is widespread, where group bullying, continuous harassment, and physical violence are not considered a big deal.”
Even after receiving 60 copies of reference books for raising children brought from far away countries, there are those who do not write a single thank you letter.
“The ‘life satisfaction’ felt by Korean children and youth was the lowest among the 26 countries of the Organization for Economic Co-operation and Development (OECD).”
Korean students also had the lowest ‘subjective happiness index’.
Young people leaving the country “because they don’t like Korea”
‘A family falling apart due to the economic downturn. ‘Surprising crime’
Unfortunately, the same trend is true for children and adolescents around the world, including the United States.
▣ These things happen every day to teenage children in Iowa.
2753 people became pregnant
7742 people had sexual intercourse
1287 people gave birth
Of the newborns born to them, 53 died.
5 teenagers commit suicide
21 alcohol-related deaths
78 children abused in Iowa, USA
One baby was born to a 12-year-old girl, and eight babies were born to teenage girls.
Every 8 minutes someone attempts suicide
20 students drop out of school.
It is said that about half of American adolescents aged 12 to 14 partake in bomb alcohol parties, and 72% of children aged 18 or 20 partake in bomb alcohol parties. Source: American Academy of Pediatrics News AAP News 9/2015
▣ The country of etiquette in the East and other parts of the world
It is difficult to find Tao, it is difficult to find Li,
It is difficult to find rites, it is difficult to find rites,
It was difficult to find love and it was difficult to find beauty.
It is difficult to find love, it is difficult to find love,
Faith is hard to find and justice is hard to find.
It is difficult to find 孝, it is difficult to find Tao,
It was difficult to find friendship or trust.
Everyone is a senior who wants to teach, but it is difficult to find scholars who want to learn.
Everyone seems to be Indians and it’s hard to find Indians.
There was a boatman and no stoker on the boat.
They say a lot of things that are not rational, logical, or logical.
Politeness Humility Frugality It is difficult to find the truth.
It is difficult to find a long-distance model.
It’s hard to find a confession, a secret, a definite path, or love.
It’s hard to find people who appreciate things, and even when given a special gift, not a single person says, “Thank you.”
It’s hard to find people who say they did a good job,
They make loud noises about preparing to take their elderly parents to an unfamiliar nursing home, not the sweet home in their hometown where they lived.
It was difficult to find relatives who would welcome guests who were brothers and third cousins who came from Cheonri-ri.
No matter where I went, I couldn’t find anyone reading books.
The mayor said, “Why do you look at medical parenting reference books when you can go to the doctor and they’ll do everything for you?”
Even though it is said that in the United States it takes at least 15 to 30 minutes for children and adolescents to receive a health checkup at a pediatric clinic, no one would agree that this is true.
Infants who were one or two years old were walking around and eating on their own with a bottle in their mouth.
There are about 17,000 cases of child abuse reported each year.
7 out of 10 Koreans distrust the government
Moreover, I have not met a single person who feels that they are living with true love and blessings.
July 2015
Can I do this?
Raise your son and daughter with true, unconditional love.
And do character education like thi
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