Harmful love and wrong love to your children. 자녀에게 해로운 사랑과 잘못된 사랑
Unfortunately, many parents possessively love their children without knowing it. Some parents love s their children with seductive love. They may love their children with role reversal love. They may raise their children by loving evangelistically and lovingly by proxy.
Possessive love, seductive love, role reversal love, and agency love are called false love.
In fact, this kind of parent-child love is an extremely harmful method of love in parent-child relationships.
Still, many parents love and nurture their children that way without knowing it.
Parents take away all their children’s rights just as they own their children, and they raise them as if they were owned by parents.
This love is called possessive love.
To love a child in this way is false love and harmful love.
Children who are raised with such love have a lot of trouble getting through the harsh world.
Even after they reach adulthood, the children are tied to their parents so that they can’t go anywhere on their own or can’t make decisions on their own when they do anything, so that they can always hang on to their parents. How poor parent-child relationship is.
We say possessive love, but possessive love, in fact, doesn’t even belong to love.
Children raised by just possessive love can be the following types of adults:
I also saw examples of parents bringing their 26-year-old children to the United States, leaving them at one of their relatives in the United States, asking them to feed them well and educate them, and then return to Korea. This is one of the examples of heritages that grow up with possessive love.
There is also sexually a tempting way to love your children. That too is false love and wrong love.
Some parents raise their children by sexually seducing them.
The truth is child abuse, not love.
Role reversal love and nurturing is a false love that is harmful to children.
Parents should be in a position to love their children so that they grow up with sound pride. Parents should not be in a position to be loved by their inexperienced children directly or indirectly.
Unknowingly, there are parents who raise their children with possessive love, seductive love, and role reversal love. Parents think they love their children right, but in fact, such love is false love and they are very harmful and wrong.
It is a method of parent-child love that is extremely harmful to growing and developing children.
Even after they are grown up with this wrong love, they cannot lead a full life and can become the main cause of preventing a healthy social life.
Some parents do not directly or indirectly give their 30-year-old son or daughter the right to seek a partner to marry.
There are also parents who don’t even give them the right to choose a job.
Some parents have all the power to make decisions for the well-being and peace of their children who reached adulthood long ago.
It is an example of possessive love to have a parent-child relationship by commanding this to do this and that to do that, and to guide the adult child according to the parents’ thoughts and claims.
Some parents deprive their children of economic power if their children aged 30 to 40 do not comply with their parents’ words.
You must truly love your children without such harmful conditions. And parents cannot own children. And parents should not sexually seduce children.