5. Love unconditionally really your children (3). 무조건적으로 당신의 자녀를 사랑하십시오 (3)
Photo 5. Mom and Dad! I love my mom and dad as much as the wide oceans, as much as the high mountains.
When mom and dad truly love their children without conditions and raise them up, the children also truly love their parents without conditions. A smiling face reflects off the mirror as a smile and an angry face reflects off the mirror as an angry face.
The children’s world video can be said to be the video of adults in that society. Copyright ⓒ 2012 John Sangwon Lee, MD., FAAP
“Love” is “a warm heart and/or work to care for others”.
There are many kinds of love, such as love between parents and children, love of God, the philanthropy of Buddhism, love of Agape, love of neighbors, love between the men and the women as described in Chater 3.
There is also unconditional love in the Bible in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.
There are also false & wrong loves such as possessive love, conditional love, role reversal love, and seductive love.
People in this world live by saying “love” a lot.
However, most parents do not know the true meaning of “love”.
Furthermore, there are many words such as “unconditional love”, “conditional love” and “real love”.
However, we are not sure what the meaning of “unconditional love”, “conditional love” and “real love” means.
Even if you know it, you just know it vaguely.
I, myself don’t know what is “real love” or “false love” really means.
Also, we do not know how best to love and raise children in order to keep their mental, emotional and physical health at their best.
In particular, novice mothers and fathers do not know how to truly love their children.
Of course, we don’t even know what “unconditional love” really is.
What is “Unconditional Child Love”?
To make matters worse, I know “how to love my children without conditions”, but I do not know for sure.
I misunderstood, “You can love even the wrong thing your child has done without conditions.”
A lot of parents also misunderstand that “they can neglect their children to behave as they please.”
If you nurture your children by loving and training them conditionally, you will not be able to cultivate healthy self-esteem for them, and you will not be able to become productive members of society even after you grow up and become adults.
I, myself did not know how to truly love my children unconditionally, and I raised three children one after another.
Still, it is difficult to truly love my children without conditions.
Also, I am confused to love my children that way.
Everyone too!
Many parents too are confused about how best to love when raising their children.
It is natural to think of it.
Perhaps even at this time, many parents truly love their children unconditionally, but many children do not feel that they are receiving true unconditional love from their parents.
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I believe that parents who are interested in the love of their children and study them continue to study the child-rearing.
Ross Campbell, MD. who is the author of “how to love children” is based on the experience gained in the scientific practice and the experience gained from raising three children.